I’m sure you’re all shaking your head thinking I’ve added the ‘asking for a friend’ bit to throw you off my track. But in all honesty, this post was sparked by a conversation I had with a man friend of mine. He’s been struggling with dating as well and we often exchange notes/advice on our…
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Should I Become A Photographer?
I love photographing people and places. I’ve also developed a new obsession for editing photos to make them look edgy. I’ve always loved photography since I was younger. Although to be fair I have gotten a little annoyed with people asking me to photograph them when we travel/go out. I don’t mind taking photos, I…
How I Spent My Weekend After An Anxiety Episode
If you read my last post, you probably know that I had a small breakdown last week. I have been dealing with anxiety for a few years now but I’ve been dealing with it pretty well for the past few months. This anxiety episode was accompanied with PMS making it much much worse. But recovering…
Things On Dating Apps That Make Me Really Doubt My Generation’s Ability to Love
Okay, okay. So I gave in and rejoined a dating app 3 weeks back. I haven’t been on a date in over 6 months because I’ve honestly just not been too psyched about putting myself out there. And most people don’t understand why not. So here are some very fun samples of men you find…
Adulting Woes I Don’t Know How To Deal With
Adulting is difficult. Despite not having a lot of responsibilities, I still find dealing with adult situations so tricky. I am really bad at confrontations and dealing with my feelings which adds to my woes while dealing with people around me. I have over the past few years started drawing boundaries but where does it…
A Letter To A
Hi A, I don’t know if you will ever read this. I, also, don’t know if you ever think about me but a romantic song is playing on the radio and our meeting is playing out in my head. The beats of the song match the beats of my heart – slow and pain-filled. Yes,…
Things I Haven’t Been Liking About Myself This Year
2023 has been a strange year for me. I have been struggling with some things but I’ve also been thriving in some other life aspects. It’s been a year where I’ve already had some really bad lows but it’s also been a year where I have found so many different things that make me happy….
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You definitely read that title right. I’ve been struggling with writing these past few weeks and I hate being away from my blog for so long but I’ve just found it extremely difficult to put my thoughts down into a cohesive post, so here is a random post with photographs from across February. I will…
Why Am I Scared?
Fear (n): an unpleasant emotion caused by the threat of danger, pain, or harm. Similar: Terror, Fright, Horror, Alarm, Panic, Distress, Anxiety, Unrest I was diagnosed with anxiety disorder a few years back and I have been working on improving my mental health but it’s been more challenging in the last few weeks. As I…
January 2023 Check-in: Where Have I Been?
I am back from a trip and an unplanned hiatus. Whenever I opened up a new post, I’d end up spacing out what I wanted to write about. It isn’t that I don’t have things to write about – I have so much to write about – it’s just that the things I do want…
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